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孩子学情商的第一本书/ “小橘灯”亲子学堂丛书(修订版)

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孩子全面成长的关键焦点
关注度最高的话题
不溺爱、不生气的正面教育法
最实用的家教指南
素质教育必备书
孩子健康成长首选读本
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情商EQ是指一个人控制自我情绪和调节人际关系的能力,是孩子未来成功的“关键因素”。本书以事例为引子,用浅显易懂的理论与实例相结合的写作方式,以亲切自然的语言风格,让父母和孩子领悟到什么是情商,同时学会那些提升情商的秘诀。
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第一章 学认知:学习认知自我,全面了解自我
第二章 学交友:孩子如何结交朋友并维系友谊
第三章 学会处理冲突:打架不是解决问题的办法
第四章 学会调节情绪:认知情绪,学会自我调节
第五章 学自信:要相信,一切力量源于自己
第六章 学坚韧:如何面对改变和失去
第七章 学勇敢:鼓励孩子做第一个吃螃蟹的人
第八章 学独立:独立一点,孩子会成长得更茁壮
第九章 学感恩:感恩让孩子懂得什么是爱和感动
Book Abstract

孩子是否特别在意他人的评价
有一个小孩跟着他的爷爷一起去赶集,他们牵着一头驴,准备到市场把它卖掉。两个人走在路上,一个路人对他们说:“有驴子不骑,真是笨蛋!”
小孩儿一听有人说他们是笨蛋,不干了,央求爷爷和他一起骑上驴背,继续赶路。
又走了一会儿,又一个路人指责他们说:“太没人性了,两个人骑着驴子,驴子都快被你们压死了。”
小孩儿一听,赶忙从驴背上跳了下来,让爷爷一个人骑在驴背上,自己跟着驴子跑。
接着,他们又遇到了一个老婆婆,看到他和爷爷,那老婆婆说道:“唉!这个老人怎么这么狠心,自己倒是舒服得很,孩子可苦了!”爷爷一听,脸上挂不住了,连忙下来,让孙子骑上去。
他们继续往前走,来到一条街上,几个女人坐在门口纳鞋底,看到他们走过来,七嘴八舌地议论起来:“这是什么世道啊!小孩子怎么这么不懂事,只顾着自己享受,让老人走路。”
小孩儿一听,心里这个气啊,心说:“这也不是,那也不是,到底要我怎么做呢?”
他和爷爷一商量,干脆,把驴子扛在身上走。这下路边的人全围了过来:“有驴子不骑,真是傻瓜!”“第一次看见扛着驴子走的人。”“这两人脑子有毛病!”
这个故事好笑吗?在现实生活中我们也经常遇到这样的事情,对同样的事情每一个人都有不同的评价。因为每个人都有自己的价值观和审美观,有些人认为丑的东西,在另一些人眼里恰恰是美的。如果我们过于在乎别人的评价,因为有人批评了自己就伤心,表扬了自己就忘乎所以,那么,我们的鼻子将被别人牵着走,将不知道该如何生活。
对于孩子,更应该让他懂得不被别人束缚的道理。他们正处于认识自我的过程,对自己缺乏一定的判断意识,所以成人的评价很容易成为孩子判断自我的标准,他们对评价的不同反应,会成为他们解决问题的动力或障碍!所以,有人才说出了这样的一句话:“太过在意别人评价的孩子,永远不可能拥有一个高情商!”
因此,父母一定要引导他们正确对待他人的评价。父母不妨这样进行尝试:
1.对客观的评价要学会接受
评价总是有好有坏,对于正面的评价,孩子们都很乐意接受,这时,父母要提醒孩子:“别骄傲,别自满。”
而负面的评价,孩子们接受起来就不太容易了,这时,父母就要帮孩子分析这些批评哪些是客观的、符合事实的,并让孩子学着接受。例如,老师说孩子的字写得不好,而事实上的确是这样,父母就要告诉孩子:“虽然是批评,但你写字时确实不太认真,你必须改掉这个毛病,好好写字。”
2.对错误的、不同角度的评价可以置之不理
在评价里面,有很多随意的否定,恶意的抨击,或者像上面故事中的那些人一样,站在不同的角度对小孩作出不同的评价,对于这样的评价,孩子们完全可以置之不理。如同班同学因为忌妒孩子的学习成绩好,说他:“笨死了,打个球都打不好,画画也很丑,真没见过这么笨的人。”对于这样的评价,孩子有必要在意吗?
3.告诉孩子:你就是独一无二的
对于那些总被别人指挥的孩子,我们要告诉他们:“你是独一无二的,我们没有必要完全按着别人的评价走!就像刚刚飞出巢穴的小鹰,它们会按着自己的想法展翅翱翔,这样才能收获一片自己的蓝天。”当孩子从小鹰的身上得到了启发后,就会开始学着独立和自我,不再被他人约束,从而激发情商的大爆炸!
……
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都说“性格决定命运”,但性格有好有坏;都说“细节决定成败”,但有的人却纠结于细节无法自拔;都说“高度决定境界”,但这样会不会把自己推上“高处不胜寒”的境地?
那么,究竟该如何才能掌握事关成败的“度”,让自己可以保持足够的平衡?方法只有一个:找到情商,激活情商,提升情商!也许你会感到惊讶:我听过智商、财商,情商是什么?
所谓情商,就是人在情绪、情感、意志、耐受挫折等方面的品质。近年来,情商的概念屡屡被提起,人们对它的重视度甚至超过了智商和财商。那些同样拥有智商和财商的人之所以展现出了截然不同的人生成就,这其中正是情商在“作祟”。
那么,我们该如何提升情商?什么时候才是培养情商的黄金时期?
答案就是:孩提时代!
让我们思考一下:是不是有很多成年人,在遭遇挫折时变得一蹶不振;在人际交往时,根本不知道如何建立真正的友谊;在职场打拼了许多年,却依旧还不了解自己;一遇到问题,不是大发雷霆,就是想着依靠别人的帮助……
造成这一切的原因,就是因为这些人在小的时候就没有建立良好的心理状态和习惯,直至长大成人依旧无法扭转!正如香港富商李嘉诚在出席给香港理工大学捐赠一亿港元的仪式上所讲,在他经商的经历中,有助于他面对各种错综复杂的问题,对他的成功起着很大作用的是——“情商”!
李嘉诚的童年是怎样的?贫困,却不放弃;卑微,却充满自尊;低调,却充满真诚……正是小时候培养出的高情商,成了他一辈子最大的财富!
你想让你的孩子成为一个高情商的人吗?你想让你的孩子成为下一个李嘉诚吗?那么,就让我们好好了解一下如何去培养孩子的情商吧!
然而,纵观目前的图书市场,有几本关于情商的家教类书籍?实话说,并不多,而且那些太过专业的,不利于孩子和家长的阅读;那些太过笼统的,又会让我们感到意犹未尽。正因为如此,这本《孩子学情商的第一本书》才会在这个时节隆重上市!真实的故事,浅显易懂的理论与实例相结合的写作方式以及亲切自然的语言风格,会让父母和孩子在第一时间内懂得什么是情商,学会那些提升孩子情商的秘诀。如此一来,孩子自然会在他们的人生路上走得更稳、更快、更轻松!
一日之计在于晨。孩子就是八九点的太阳,他们正处于学习知识、掌握技能的黄金时间,所以,让我们抓紧时间翻开这本书,激活孩子体内的“情商基因”吧

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